It’s 1:26 am and I’ve just gotten through my email and messages– over 600 per day.

Now, to re-film a presentation I gave at CEO Lawyer Summit. Believe it or not, someone ran off with the camera equipment that had the recordings.

So, I won’t be done until about 3 am– but there are deadlines to hit, and the buck stops with me.

It may look like I live the “4-hour workweek” life– if you see only the highlights on social media.

People want overnight success.

The reality is that I’ve been at this for over 30 years. When I started, I ate off the dollar menu at Mcdonald’s to save money. 

I stayed in fleabag motels because I couldn’t afford a nice conference hotel. I stuffed food in my pockets to eat later.

I borrowed money from friends to help me make payroll.

And I still don’t believe I’m “successful” as an internet, digital, or social media marketer.

Entrepreneurship looks easy until you factor in the unexpected problems that always come up.

Overnight Success
Hidden Secrets behind Overnight Success

Secrets behind Overnight Success

Yesterday, I interviewed someone who made $87 million as an “overnight success”. 

And by overnight success, we mean 8 years of credit card debt up to his eyeballs, which he paid off just last month.

Don’t be discouraged if you haven’t “made it” with overnight success as quickly as some of the people you see on the internet.

They either aren’t telling you the whole story, or you might not realize it’s taken them 10 years to get to that point.

We are all so unique that it’s important to take notes on what we need and want.

It’s also important to remember some of those people who “made it” bought their following, PR, verifications, etc. 

Never compare yourself to others getting overnight success, especially on social media, where so much of it is artificial.

So many people get discouraged and quit so early. Get good at one thing and stop it with shiny object syndrome.

You might be thinking, at what point do you consider someone “made it”? 1M per year, 10M, 100M? Being fulfilled with what they do?

It depends on the person but rarely is it monetary.

This year one of my friends marks his 16th year working. I couldn’t tell you how many years were 80-hour workweeks to get to the 5 or 6-Figure workweeks. 

If you’re not willing or able to work for what you want, then entrepreneurship isn’t for you.

The vision is larger and much more desirable than the work it takes to get there.

Also, one of my friends used to stay up 24hrs every Sunday to blast 20,000 email addresses because they couldn’t afford the few hundred dollars for a legit mailing system.

Persistence is key. Read the success stories but let them inspire you rather than define you

Keep going. Keep trying. Remember you are doing this so you can serve the people you need to serve. You might consider closing your doors many times over the years.

The best tip for struggling entrepreneurs is to think about the consequences of stopping.

People want overnight success, but what would life look like if you shut down the business and got a job?

Would you be ok?

Could you rebuild the business on the side of the job?

It’s about understanding opportunity cost. Not everybody is meant to be an entrepreneur, and that’s ok.

But many hold themselves back unnecessarily. Sometimes you lose money and lose sleep to handle that emergency, even if out of scope.

The best tip is to understand that this is your journey. Stop comparing with others, just like Tony Robbins says 

“Energy flows where attention goes”

People will remember you for your character, generosity, and integrity in the long run on this long journey of entrepreneurship, as you exemplify.

So, even if someone is struggling as an entrepreneur, I’d say just trust that the goodwill and relationships you have planted and nurtured by doing the “right” thing will come to fruition one day, and you will receive many times over what you’ve given.

This too shall pass, but the relationships will last.

Here is some wise advice;

Doing the right thing always pays off eventually– call it “karma”, the law of reciprocity, or whatever.

The good guys win in the end.

The best tip I have – only two things will keep you from achieving success

  • If you quit trying to be successful and give up on your dream
  • You die before you become successful

The first one you control, and if you quit, you’ll never know how close you were to being successful.

The second one won’t matter because you won’t know you failed.

You need to focus. Sometimes you’re the windshield, sometimes you’re the bug.

Most days, I’m doing what I choose…even though it might feel like hell at that moment. You’ve got to be able to play the long game. It’s not for everybody, but it is for anyone that wants it.

Overnight successes average 10-20 years.

My advice is to know what you want. Aspiring to achieve that. Others shouldn’t have to be your driver. If you have a strong vision of what you want and the why behind it, you will have the motivation and perseverance to overcome challenges.

If you’re reading this, perhaps this message was meant for you — to give you that little bit of encouragement you need.

I’d love to hear your best tip for struggling entrepreneurs on the journey upward to overnight success.